5 things I dislike about black people

Hello world. I haven't blogged in about 3 years. But I felt like it was time to share some of my thoughts with you. If u disagree, PERFECT. You are entitled to your opinion. If you agree, share it with someone. Lets get to it.

1) TOO MANY BLACK MEN ARE NOT BEING FATHERS. SOOOO u can make the baby but cant take be man enough to take care of it.I got cha. I see TOOOO many single mothers walking around and hear them talking about they "baby daddies". Men, if the woman is not smart enough to tell you to strap a cap on your wild penis you should take it upon yourself to PUT ONE ON. Yes it feels good but is it worth 18 years of child support and dealing with someone you dont TRULY want to be with??? THINK ABOUT YOUR CASH BEFORE U SPLASH.

2) MOST BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT HELP EACH OTHER. All we do is try to compete with each other for things that do not matter. SHOES, CLOTHES, CARS,WOMEN,MEN, etc. None of these things gonna matter when its judgment day. Mexicans will sleep 10 deep in a one bedroom apartment, ride 57 deep in a 2 door Honda, and build a skyscraper in one day to provide for each other...family or not. White people are always helping each other find jobs, work on resumes , network, etc. Why are we only good at tearing each other down?? million dollar question, no answer.

3) BLACK WOMEN...oh my beautiful black queens. I DISLIKE THE WAY A LOT OF YOU TREAT EACH OTHER AND Y'ALL ATTITUDES.You all hate on each other about EVERYTHING. "oh she think she cute" ,"oh she think she got a good job/man, "oh she rachet ", "oh she think her outfit cute ", "she a hoe ", "I don't like her dress/shoes/shirt/accessories/weave/skin color/way she look/ ". Why do you u even care??? why cant you stay in YOUR own lane (if you have one) and worry about your life and bettering it?? Too much negative energy and you wonder why black men date white/other women. Y'all a handful and a half. I love y'all to death , but i sure wish y'all could ease up a bit. Not all of y'all are this way but enough for me to address it.

4) BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE TO READ. Now some of us do read but most of us DONT PRACTICE it at all nor do we enjoy its beauty. Our minds become stagnant because we do not fill them with knowledge, which is power. Why does someone have to MAKE you want to have power?? Once we become adults we forget all the things we have learned as children and teens from the easy process of reading. Pick up a BOOK, read a newspaper, find you a good blog (not saying mine), etc. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. There is so much to learn PLUS its exercise for your brain, food for thought.

5) BLACK PEOPLE LOOOOOVVVVE KILLING EACH OTHER. This one is self explanatory. Ain't nobody in the whole entire UNIVERSE killing someone else over a scuffed Michael Jordan tennis shoe in the club...except black people. We kill EACH OTHER over the most idiotic things. Racist individuals/groups don't even have to do it any more. THEY ARE #WINNING. They can sit back and watch it the comfort of their homes. If that's not a shame I don't know what is.

REALITY VS. PERCEPTION

from dictionary.com :

re⋅al⋅i⋅ty  [ree-al-i-tee]
–noun, plural
1.the state or quality of being real.
2.resemblance to what is real.
3.a real thing or fact.
4.real things, facts, or events taken as a whole; state of affairs: the reality of the business world; vacationing to escape reality.

per⋅cep⋅tion [per-sep-shuhn]
–noun
1.the act or faculty of apprehending by means of the senses or of the mind; cognition; understanding.
2.immediate or intuitive recognition or appreciation, as of moral, psychological, or aesthetic qualities; insight; intuition; discernment: an artist of rare perception.
3.the result or product of perceiving, as distinguished from the act of perceiving; percept.
4.Psychology. a single unified awareness derived from sensory processes while a stimulus is present.


Now that I got the definition part out of the way...lets dig in...Hello people, if your reading this,thanks!!!!!!...I been busy working and dealing with life.....as we all have...lets go...

REALITY, or whats REAL. is something like a lost art, it seems as if lying and deception is what a lot of people have become good at these days, we all know this. And with the loss of REALITY comes in the perception after the deception...

"Reality vs. perception" sounds SOOO deep but it not, we all deal with it in some form or fashion on a daily..most don't even think about it and if we do we cant really distinguish wats real from wat fake anymore...most people are living in a perceptive world, meaning they truly believe in their minds that they are "real" and whats around them is also....this is SURELY not even close to being true....

The best case of this battle is with relationships...a lot of women have the perception that their men are faithful and do not lie to them, cheat, talk to other females, blah blah blah..... when in fact the reality of the situation is that their man is doing all those things and a ton more that he shouldn't be doing and lying about doing them, no pun intended ...oh and lets not just down us men....the same goes for women...y'all are some sneaky creatures..A lot of y'all can have a squeaky clean image (perception) but really be jumpoff's (reality).

so to keep this blog short and sweet....i have comprised a list of common "reality checks"...maybe people will listen:

1. If you are deceiving your gf/bf realize that if you were REAL with them, they wouldn't be with you...which means you don't deserve them anyways

2. If you lie to males/females to make them like you more , then your giving off a false perception...which means they PROBABLY wont like the real you wen it comes to light....you would be a liar in their eyes, among other things...not good...

3. If you are around here lying about ur gpa, it just means you aren't as smart as you thought you were....study more.....

4. If you are claiming to be a thug in college, stop....thugs do not go to college....just stick to your books and leave the "college thug" image alone.....

5. If all you talk about is "haters", quit....your prolly just trying to cover up the fact your a hater yourself....but its no big deal, we are ALL haters in some way...