Cyber-Thirst......

Good afternoon world, I just have to blog about this real quick.....

Mannnnnnnn Im too sick with us men playing ourselves with being SUPER thirsty online...YES fellas u are supposed to interact with women but there is def a way to do it and be TASTEFUL and RESPECTFUL.

I def dont want any of us to be featured on www.Lamelance.com ( yes this a real website ) posting in a girls inbox 10-15 times and she aint responding or hounding a chicks pics with "Likes" and Thirsty comments, but we are doing it to ourselves. If she dont respond after the FIRST time  : KEEP IT MOVING BRUH!!!!!!

Maybe its a mental disorder, maybe we dont care, maybe we really think she will really respond if we are persistent enough. WRONG

so the NORMAL hierarchy goes : 

1) Interest in the lady
2) ATTEMPT at convo ( you lucky if she respond )
3) Get to know her better/make good convo
4) If the vibe is right ask for the number
5) Date or whatever you choose to do as grown ups

DO NOT GO STR8 for the THIRST KILL . Here are some common examples of the THIRST KILL :

1) "HEY BOO"/BABY/BABY GIRL/SEXY/BEAUTIFUL, ETC - she dont know u
2) DAMN U FINE/SEXI/CUTE/ETC - u showing thirst off the top
3) OH U GOT MAN ? U CANT HAVE NO FRIENDS?? - disrespectful and thirsty bad combo
4) ASKING FOR THE NUMBER OFF THE RIP - u already showed her ur thirsty, why would she give u her NUMBER?? think about these things...
5) LIKING ALL HER DAMN PICTURES ON FB AND IG. - Gahhh damn Bruh, have a glass of water

Fellas I promise u will have much more success if u just cool out and be original. I hope this thirst comes to an end soon. Ladies help us out and start POSTING all instances of thirst. I BET dudes will chill out. Ima give it a name : CYBER - THIRST

The video below is an example of Extreme Cyber- Thirst....lets get our pride back fellas!!!

Ignorance aint bliss......

“Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance." - Confucius

Before reading this remember :

1) ALL young black males are not ignorant
2) ALL young black males are not LOST

Now that we got that out the way lets dig in.....ignorance is at an ALL time high among us young black males. We disrespect our women, leave our children to be raised by single mothers, give away our freedom for fast money, amongst many other things.

Now I'm not here to change the world just to share a quick thought and prospective on this matter that plagues us and hopefully others will do the same

I feel as though our job as young black males is to be LEADERS in anything we do because we have ALWAYS been strong we just don't use our strength in the right ways. We are supposed to lead with examples and be role models to the upcoming youth, So where did we go wrong??

Why has the thought of  poppin bottles, models, and mollies taken over our culture? What happened to young black males wanting to be like MLK or Malcolm X and not 2chainz ?

What makes us so IGNORANT is the fact that we don't realize how far we could get as a culture if we had more young black males helping each other and upcoming youth rather than destroying each other. No one is perfect but it doesn't hurt to advise a young black kid to do something positive with his life.

TOO many young black men are dying in the streets, being locked up, and not supporting the children they had a hand in making..Are we that selfish and ignorant that we don't wanna change for the better?

5 things I dislike about black people

Hello world. I haven't blogged in about 3 years. But I felt like it was time to share some of my thoughts with you. If u disagree, PERFECT. You are entitled to your opinion. If you agree, share it with someone. Lets get to it.

1) TOO MANY BLACK MEN ARE NOT BEING FATHERS. SOOOO u can make the baby but cant take be man enough to take care of it.I got cha. I see TOOOO many single mothers walking around and hear them talking about they "baby daddies". Men, if the woman is not smart enough to tell you to strap a cap on your wild penis you should take it upon yourself to PUT ONE ON. Yes it feels good but is it worth 18 years of child support and dealing with someone you dont TRULY want to be with??? THINK ABOUT YOUR CASH BEFORE U SPLASH.

2) MOST BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT HELP EACH OTHER. All we do is try to compete with each other for things that do not matter. SHOES, CLOTHES, CARS,WOMEN,MEN, etc. None of these things gonna matter when its judgment day. Mexicans will sleep 10 deep in a one bedroom apartment, ride 57 deep in a 2 door Honda, and build a skyscraper in one day to provide for each other...family or not. White people are always helping each other find jobs, work on resumes , network, etc. Why are we only good at tearing each other down?? million dollar question, no answer.

3) BLACK WOMEN...oh my beautiful black queens. I DISLIKE THE WAY A LOT OF YOU TREAT EACH OTHER AND Y'ALL ATTITUDES.You all hate on each other about EVERYTHING. "oh she think she cute" ,"oh she think she got a good job/man, "oh she rachet ", "oh she think her outfit cute ", "she a hoe ", "I don't like her dress/shoes/shirt/accessories/weave/skin color/way she look/ ". Why do you u even care??? why cant you stay in YOUR own lane (if you have one) and worry about your life and bettering it?? Too much negative energy and you wonder why black men date white/other women. Y'all a handful and a half. I love y'all to death , but i sure wish y'all could ease up a bit. Not all of y'all are this way but enough for me to address it.

4) BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE TO READ. Now some of us do read but most of us DONT PRACTICE it at all nor do we enjoy its beauty. Our minds become stagnant because we do not fill them with knowledge, which is power. Why does someone have to MAKE you want to have power?? Once we become adults we forget all the things we have learned as children and teens from the easy process of reading. Pick up a BOOK, read a newspaper, find you a good blog (not saying mine), etc. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. There is so much to learn PLUS its exercise for your brain, food for thought.

5) BLACK PEOPLE LOOOOOVVVVE KILLING EACH OTHER. This one is self explanatory. Ain't nobody in the whole entire UNIVERSE killing someone else over a scuffed Michael Jordan tennis shoe in the club...except black people. We kill EACH OTHER over the most idiotic things. Racist individuals/groups don't even have to do it any more. THEY ARE #WINNING. They can sit back and watch it the comfort of their homes. If that's not a shame I don't know what is.

REALITY VS. PERCEPTION

from dictionary.com :

re⋅al⋅i⋅ty  [ree-al-i-tee]
–noun, plural
1.the state or quality of being real.
2.resemblance to what is real.
3.a real thing or fact.
4.real things, facts, or events taken as a whole; state of affairs: the reality of the business world; vacationing to escape reality.

per⋅cep⋅tion [per-sep-shuhn]
–noun
1.the act or faculty of apprehending by means of the senses or of the mind; cognition; understanding.
2.immediate or intuitive recognition or appreciation, as of moral, psychological, or aesthetic qualities; insight; intuition; discernment: an artist of rare perception.
3.the result or product of perceiving, as distinguished from the act of perceiving; percept.
4.Psychology. a single unified awareness derived from sensory processes while a stimulus is present.


Now that I got the definition part out of the way...lets dig in...Hello people, if your reading this,thanks!!!!!!...I been busy working and dealing with life.....as we all have...lets go...

REALITY, or whats REAL. is something like a lost art, it seems as if lying and deception is what a lot of people have become good at these days, we all know this. And with the loss of REALITY comes in the perception after the deception...

"Reality vs. perception" sounds SOOO deep but it not, we all deal with it in some form or fashion on a daily..most don't even think about it and if we do we cant really distinguish wats real from wat fake anymore...most people are living in a perceptive world, meaning they truly believe in their minds that they are "real" and whats around them is also....this is SURELY not even close to being true....

The best case of this battle is with relationships...a lot of women have the perception that their men are faithful and do not lie to them, cheat, talk to other females, blah blah blah..... when in fact the reality of the situation is that their man is doing all those things and a ton more that he shouldn't be doing and lying about doing them, no pun intended ...oh and lets not just down us men....the same goes for women...y'all are some sneaky creatures..A lot of y'all can have a squeaky clean image (perception) but really be jumpoff's (reality).

so to keep this blog short and sweet....i have comprised a list of common "reality checks"...maybe people will listen:

1. If you are deceiving your gf/bf realize that if you were REAL with them, they wouldn't be with you...which means you don't deserve them anyways

2. If you lie to males/females to make them like you more , then your giving off a false perception...which means they PROBABLY wont like the real you wen it comes to light....you would be a liar in their eyes, among other things...not good...

3. If you are around here lying about ur gpa, it just means you aren't as smart as you thought you were....study more.....

4. If you are claiming to be a thug in college, stop....thugs do not go to college....just stick to your books and leave the "college thug" image alone.....

5. If all you talk about is "haters", quit....your prolly just trying to cover up the fact your a hater yourself....but its no big deal, we are ALL haters in some way...

tomorrow is not promised.....

Hello world...I have not written in a while cause you been WORKING hard....but anyways, REST IN PEACE to all the people that have passed on to the next life in the recent weeks, even days...From Kirwin K., a young man who hd a bright future, to MJ, the king of pop....we miss you all and we wont forget you...

But with these recent events we need to focus on the bigger picture: life is short and we can go any day now. We need to stop all the hatred and and abuse of each other and actually come together and appreciate and respect one another.

We need to keep all the people we hold dear CLOSE; mothers, fathers, uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents, etc. DO NOT TAKE YOUR FAMILY FOR GRANTED!!!!! Make room in your life to spend time with your family and keep in touch with them no matter what...we should not have to wait till someone dies to miss them or see them. We ALL need to make a better effort.

LET PETTY GRUDGES AND BEEFS GO!!!! beef is stupid and pointless anyways, we are grown now...of course no one wants to be disrespected BUT as adults there is always a higher road to handling issues..we need to learn to use our mouths for peaceful resolution rather than tongue lashings. Fighting doesn't solve anything, hating someone doesn't solve anything, so we need to learn to control our anger and just LEARN from every situation we encounter..

We also need to start seizing each day and appreciating LIFE. We all complain about our daily struggles and how unhappy we are BUT we could all be in a lower place or in a cemetary. We need to appreciate the fact that the Lord let us live to see another day to even go thru these struggles. Life isn't easy, as we all know, but just know it could be much worse in the blink of an eye...

LAST BUT NOT LEAST...can we PLLLEASE, PLLLEASE, PLLLLLLEASE stop hating on each other and worrying about how someone else is living..if you don't like the way someone is living, that's cool you are entitled to your opinion...but downing them wont get you anywhere..Ima tell yall a secret yall prolly didnt know: EVERYONE HAS HATED IN SOME FORM OR FASHION, be it openly or in our on lil sneaky way.. Learn to inspire people in a positive way and just live and LET live....

My lite thoughts today of LIFE....

Hello people...I appreciating you reading (as usual)...so we are gonna deviate away from relationship talk and get into life..

As we all know, this thing we are doing is called "living", which is derived from the root word life. Life is a complex and touchy subject that encompasses any and every subject. Nobody really knows why we are here, what were are really supposed to be doing, or what we really are supposed to do after. What we DO know is that LIFE IS TOUGH, and full of daily struggles...We are all constantly facing struggles of all natures and kinds and sometimes we get down and feel that there is no hope, but of course, there is..

Everyday we face issues that they don't know how to solve..we are ALL searching for answers and resolutions on a daily... What is inevitable is that, we ALL struggle with SOMETHING in life but how we handle it determines a lot of things such as character, morals, etc. For example if you are broke, you need to work harder, not steal . This, in turn, will build a good work ethic.

As for people who are less worried about funds and just want to be happy (which is the hardest thing to attain) , we have to dig deeper and figure out WHY we are unhappy before we search for things to make us happy. For some reason, a lot of people turn to other people for happiness and they find that it is temporary OR it isn't real at all. Now for the small percentage of people who have something REAL, I applaud you..Happiness is a luxury of life; it isnt given to you, you cant buy it, and when u THINK you have it, it can be taken in an instant...but we must learn to keep our heads up and keep pursuing..

I think A LOT and i want to inspire others to do the same and write about it..and people who know me the best know this...but I have yet to figure out a perfect formula to finding happiness and figuring out life..maybe happiness is never fully attainable...I know what happiness isn't tho:
1. sleeping around
2. talking to a lot of (females/males)
3. disrespecting females
4. getting every girl number we see
5. having money
6. drinking
7. smoking
8. anything else stupid that subs for REAL happiness

so search for real happiness and be more MENTAL....and that goes for me too, i cant give advice if i don't live by it...

Why I feel lot of relationshsips dont work..part 1

Hello world...if you are reading this THANK YOU...and if you like it pass it on to someone else because u NEVER know who may need a few enlightening words....so here we go...

Nowadays, relationships come and go like the seasons. Men and Women cheat, lie, manipulate, and abuse (mentally, physically, emotionally) each other...all of these negative things can turn something sweet very sour..but lets look a little deeper into the problem of unsuccessful relationships BEFORE the mis-steps I just listed..

For starters most (people) go wrong because they look for what they WANT in a mate rather than what they NEED in a mate. Wanting to be with someone who possesses the qualities YOU need can be tough because that person may not fit your wants in the looks department, etc. Wanting to be with someone based upon looks, financial stability, or status usually leads to the destruction of the relationship because you cant build a good foundation and find love in those things... Its like building a straw house; it may look nice and all but its eventually gonna cave in when the weather gets ugly..

Problem #2: LACK OF COMMUNICATION. THIS IS A BIGGIE!!!!When people are in relationships that are not established with good communication , they usually fail. When an arguments or tough time occurs the female usually wants to talk it out BUT the male constantly uses the phrase "i don't know" or is silent. This is because most men have not been put in the position to HAVE to communicate their thoughts and feelings therefore don't TRULY know how to. We find it hard to truly communicate our feelings because we deem our selves to be the "less emotional" partner, which is not true tho. We are very emotional and it only truly shows when we feel threatened in some manor. Men need to be more in tune with our emotions and be honest and open, sounds weak but it is necessary. Both partners need to establish OPEN communication and be able to calmly talk about any subject, be it good or bad....

I only TOUCHED LIGHTLY on this subject....

well that's enough reading for one sitting people...part two coming soon....