Why are women so heartbroken???

well well well, this is my first post in a while. It seems like we have a MAJOR problem these days that I want to LIGHTLY to address. A LOT OF WOMEN ARE HEART BROKEN. WHY?? (MOST) men have deviated from treating women right. WHY?? well (she) would NATURALLY say because men are "dogs" and we (men) "aint shit" but when we dig DEEPER into the reasons and rational, there are sooooo many different reasons men don't do right that i could go on forever.

SO ima be honest, I'm not gonna put me and all men under the bus on this one either.The grim truth is that: EVERY MAN HAS HIS OWN REASON FOR THE WAY HE TREATS or DOESN'T TREAT A WOMAN!!!!This is SOOOOO detail specific that us (men) even break it down to the individual woman. Some men are naturally disrespectful ,rude and cheat, while some of us have been MOLDED that way by peers, surroundings, college, etc. MOST of us have the POTENTIAL to be that "good guy" every girl wants but we don't want to reach that potential because WE DON'T HAVE TO. Females allow us to have what we want, where we want it, and when we want it WITHOUT a commitment or working thus devaluing themselves in our eyes and not giving us an incentive to do right or even do better. truth sucks, along with reality.

Just to be honest with my ladies, if u (the typical sexually active female and lovin it) have, what i like to call "PRE-PAID effortless sex" with a guy (which includes but is not limited to : no commitment, no dates, no work put in, no understanding, no strings attached) 9.5 times out of 10 he is NOT gonna want to be with u and if he DOES decided to be with u he will more than likely cheat because he has NOTHING to look forward to with u, u already gave him what he wants. This is very sad to me but women need to be more aware of how a man's MIND works rather than how good he can stroke....

my next blog will be more uplifting for the ladies...because yall need to be empowered and enlightened and y'all need to LISTEN..if y'all listen to me then we ALL can win and y'all will know what to expect and not be hurt at the end of the day..

POINT I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE:

i realized in my years of living and learning that no matter how beautiful you are(male or females) there is someone out there that will disrespect u, shit on u, cheat on u, mistreat u, etc, ask HALLE BERRY......no one is exempt